Types of Abuse
There are four main types of intimate partner violence (Saltzman et al. 2002):
Physical violence is the intentional use of physical force with the potential for causing death, disability, injury, or harm. Physical violence includes, but is not limited to, scratching; pushing; shoving; throwing; grabbing; biting; choking; shaking; slapping; punching; burning; use of a weapon; and use of restraints or one’s body, size, or strength against another person.
Sexual violence is divided into three categories:
1) Use of physical force to compel a person to engage in a sexual act against his or her will, whether or not the act is completed;
2) attempted or completed sex act involving a person who is unable to understand the nature or condition of the act, to decline participation, or to communicate unwillingness to engage in the sexual act, e.g., because of illness, disability, or the influence of alcohol or other drugs, or because of intimidation or pressure; and
Threats of physical or sexual violence use words, gestures, or weapons to communicate the intent to cause death, disability, injury, or physical harm.
Psychological/emotional violence involves trauma to the victim caused by acts, threats of acts, or coercive tactics. Psychological/emotional abuse can include, but is not limited to, humiliating the victim, controlling what the victim can and cannot do, withholding information from the victim, deliberately doing something to make the victim feel diminished or embarrassed, isolating the victim from friends and family, and denying the victim access to money or other basic resources. It is considered psychological/emotional violence when there has been prior physical or sexual violence or prior threat of physical or sexual violence.
In addition, stalking is often included among the types of Intimate Partner Violence (IPV). Stalking generally refers to repeated behavior that causes victims to feel a high level of fear (Tjaden and Thoennes 2000).
Intimate Partner Violence is a serious problem that is common in our society. Violence by an intimate partner is linked to both immediate and long-term health, social, and economic consequences. Factors at all levels—individual, relationship, community, and societal—contribute to the perpetration of IPV. Preventing IPV requires a clear understanding of those factors, coordinated resources, and empowering and initiating change in individuals, families, and society.
Reference The Centers for Disease Control
The bottom line is that abuse comes in many forms and affects many people. One national study found that 29% of women and 22% of men had experienced physical, sexual, or psychological Intimate Partner Violence during their lifetime.
The United States National Domestic Abuse Hotline is 1-800-799-7233