Are you the unfaithful one? Or is your spouse cheating on you? Can your relationship survive an affair? Can the relationship survive infidelity?
Some relationships do survive an affair and many don’t. The problem is always a matter of trust after the affair has been known to the person that was cheated on. How can you trust your partner again after they have lied, cheated, and deceived you by having an affair? If you want to try to save your relationship after an affair has taken place, then we have a couple of good books we recommend on the subject and they are listed below.
This is always about personal choice. Don’t let others decide for you. If you want to stay in the relationship after an affair has taken place then delve deep into the reasons that allowed for the affair to happen in the first place.
Don’t live in denial. Face the truth about this and other issues that may have led to the affair and then find solutions to forgiving and then moving forward. Anything is possible if both parties are committed to working through this problem and committed to saving the relationship. Both people must be willing to do the work that is required to repair the damage that an affair causes and then both parties need to rebuild trust and learn how to move beyond the affair.