I have a crush
Dear Positive Way, I have a crush on a female, as you
know I am a female too. I am not sure if she is trying to play games or is she really like me the same. I met her only one month now. for the last two weeks she has been flirting with me and showing gesture like she want more than friendship. at the same token she not out front with what she want from me. I am feeling emotionally confuse. I don’t know if I should follow my intuition that maybe she is afraid to come out with the truth that she is attracted to same gender. Deep in my heart I feel she has much love for me. seriously, what should I do? go with the flow, or get hurt at the end . signed, inlust, age 38
Dear Inlust, Follow your intuition. Take a chance. Life is too short to not take a chance on love. Own up to your feelings and see what happens from there. Read our Express and Own Your Feelings and communicate openly and honestly as best you can. You are not wrong for having your feelings and you should own up to them. If she feels the same then you have a chance of having a good relationship. If not learn from this and move on.
| Please understand you have free will. This advice is given only in the realm of personal growth and self-help. This is not to be considered a substitute |