More Quizzes Questions Never or almost never Once in awhile Frequently 1. Little arguments escalate into ugly fights with accusations, criticisms, name calling, or bringing up past problem. 2. My partner criticizes or belittles my opinions, feelings, or desires. 3. My partner seems to view my words or actions more negatively than I mean them to be. 4. When we have a problem to solve, it is like we are on opposite teams. 5. I hold back from telling my partner what I really think and feel. 6. I feel lonely in this relationship. 7. When we argue, one of us withdraws, that is, doesn't want to talk about it anymore; or leaves the scene.