Dear Positive Way, I’m a man who has been in a relationship with this amazing woman for 3 years. And just all of a sudden she doesn’t want to be with me at all. We live together and share everything, and now all of a sudden she doesn’t want to talk to me or nothing. I have been in and out of jobs the whole time we have been together, I know that was a burden her at times. She says that she interested in some other guy and wants to go on other dates. so I didn’t talk to her or text message her for like 4 days, last night we talked and she will still kiss me and let me hold her at night but I want all of her.
What do I need to do to get her back ASAP?
How do I reconnect our magic before it’s too late?
Bring back lost love
Dear Braxton, here are some things for you to consider as you work to bring back lost love.
- You say she is an amazing woman. Has your relationship been amazing as well and have you contributed to that relationship or are you taking it for granted? It is not uncommon for people to sometimes get a little lazy about working on the relationship and contributing to it as much as they should. You mention that you have been a burden at times. Maybe it is time to end the “free ride.”
- Her actions may be a way of telling you some things. Find out what they are. The great news is that you appear to be able to talk. Talking is what is going to help you get to the heart of the matter. If you tell her how you feel about her and how you are committed to creating a better relationship, you then have the opportunity to ask her what she is missing. If you can find out what is missing in your relationship with her you can work together to find ways of putting it into your relationship.
- We encourage you to use these resources.rekindling romance and for communication.